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Sunday, January 3, 2010

Social Motivator: The Sound of Silence

In the words of Simon and Garfunkel, “what you see is the inability of people to love each other, …called the sound of silence.” We often think of silence in terms of metaphors – as the inability to love, as a kind of solitude, as a kind of release, or as a sweetness. Despite all these metaphors, people still deal with it as a natural thing, as a part of the human moment. Yet so many people still have no idea what to do with it.

In a Ted Talk given by John Francis in 2008, we hear about a silence which lasted 17 years, and the very first words he says after it. More importantly, we hear about the silence which allowed him to change the world. In his talk he shares the story of what motivated him, and what he learned through the silence. If we could just say nothing, and listen to the world and everything that goes on in it, what would we learn? In his talk, Francis describes learning how the world moves, and how people are moved – he talks about an experience where he’s teaching a class without using words, and the kind of discussion and learning it invites in a classroom; it was enough to even teach him, despite him being the instructor.

This silence is everywhere. Buddhist monks practice this silence and stillness in their meditation, and as such, they learn to see the world in ways which one would never hope to imagine. I like to sit in silence before I begin writing a poem, so that I can hear what the world has to tell me. The sound of silence isn’t a silence at all; in fact it is a vivid and loud resonance that creeps throughout the world. It isn’t an inability of people to love, but rather a call for people to listen and love. To conclude this blog, I want to share with you a piece by John Cage, called 4’33”. It is supposed to get us to listen to the art which is the world around us.

Friday, January 1, 2010

Personal Motivation: The Year in Review

Happy New Year to all! 2009 was a year of many interesting memories for me, and despite the last two weeks reflecting on major events, none of them really relate to my personal experience.

Throughout 2009, I learned many things about myself, experienced many adventures and grew as a person. Just a few examples of this follow:

1. New Friends: I met at least two new people who I am so thankful to have in my life. You should know who you are. It needs to be said that you have helped me to grow up as a person.

2. Old Friends: Throughout the year, you reminded me what it meant to love someone more than yourself, and one of you taught me what it means to love someone more than anything in the world.

3. Tough Times – There have been some challenges throughout the year, but I learned two very important things because of them; the first is that I need to take risks so that I can stay true to what I believe in, and second that sometimes the only way to fix things is to let go.

I’ve gone through a lot more than this, but obviously I wouldn’t be able to fit it all. Throughout the year though, I’ve seen things change, people change, and more importantly, my own change. Whether it’s for the best or for the worst, I couldn’t say. But since 2010 is here, I’m going to just keep going forward. Hopefully it doesn’t turn out a disaster.